think "outside the box" and take into consideration what you can and cannot control.
when you're embroiled in domestic conflict it's difficult to see the big picture when you're caught up in the day to day.
talking to me can help you sort through the issues and decide which are the most important and which aren't really as important as you thought.
of feeling like you have to figure this out all on your own. While the eventual outcome may not parallel your wish list, at least you'll know you did it the right and smart way.